Relationships
All I can say… Please try and make your relationships make sense.
If you are looking seriously, make sure that you are going in to a relationship that makes sense.
There are many reasons to get into a relationship, but if you are serious about making it work…
Find a partner that is interested in the same goals and is ambitious as you are. This might sound likeit will add a burden to the relationship- but truthfully you are making a great long term decision.
If you are looking to fool around then good luck, but once you settle down- you will see that the relationship process makes sense…
Don't date a girl who is depressed, one who you are always taking care of… You need your time as well.
Make sure that you are compatible- Age, interests, and personality.
I have made a mistake and am dating a women who is perfect, but is 11 years older than myself.
Once you have decided to settle down, don't settle for anything that there can't be a future there.
It just costs time effort and pain.
Also, once you realize that you aren't compatible. End the relationship nicely. You never know if you might end up dating her friend.
But Rule # 1: Find someone that can give you what you are willing to give. There's nothing more detrimental to a relationship than putting in all the effort, and getting no appreciation.
It may actually drive you nuts, and put your dating life on hold- No one is worth that….
Also make sure that your friends approve, otherwise you are probably making a emotional mistake.
Please learn from my mistakes.
Interesting post. Funny how age matters to some people, and matters not at all to others. Funniest of all how some people PRETEND not to care but when it comes down to brass tacks, they really can't see past the number on the drivers license. Read above "a woman who is PERFECT" but is 11 years older - therefore there can't be a future. WTF???? Do you have any idea how hard it is to find someone PERFECT? Someone who loves you despite your immaturity (yes, it goes both ways, dude)? Who overlooks your faults and creates a life with you, only to be told - "sorry hon, you've expired".
ReplyDeleteIt's cruel, it's stupid, and frankly if she's PERFECT you are shooting yourself in the foot. She will always be the one who got away.
Keep that in mind, Mr. Personality.